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Friday, October 28, 2011

Overcome Generation Gap

The so called generation gap is the reason for family issues. Misunderstandings between parents and children are quite common. Why this is happening?

Parents are more concerned about their children and they feel that whatever they decide is good for their kids. They are disappointed when these decisions are not accepted by children - the reason is children are more advanced and they have more exposure than their parents where. They doesn't like when decisions are forced on them and say goodbye to advices. This is the stage where their parents were in when they were young but forgotten the nature of state and the children cannot put themselves in their shoes to understand parents feelings. This is why the clash occurs.

It's easy to overcome. How? Though it's hard to switch places, U can overcome the conflict by trust.

For parents, they hav to spend more time with children than involving in materialistic desires which are not permanent. Keep family at the top of ur priority list then aim for recognition. For that changing oneself is important. Trust ur children and encourage their growth by being a positive parent instead of discouraging their desires and make them nothing.

For children, as the coming generations are brighter than our parents time. Be wise, analyze the fact and act accordingly. Try to spend time with parents. Share some family time instead talking to computers and mobiles. As it's soon u r gonna be a parent sometime later and try not repeating the mistakes ur parents done. We know characters are passed on from what we learn from our parents and our kids will be the most affected. Then we will be the sole reason of spoiling the whole generation. Everything is the cause of chain reaction.

Let's change and make others change. Make a fruitful generation!!!

Positive Aura

Every human is struggling to understand why this has to happen this way! Why not the other way round. This is called the power of positive energy. Each individual have unique power of making things happen the way they wish. This can be achieved through increasing ur positive energy. Love what u do and focus ur energy towards what u aim; u will absolutely attain positive result. This is nothing but ur strong confidence which is the base for positiveness.

Eg. In a crowd u are confident about ur dressing and personality; u will emit positive energy across, which will attract the crowd's focus on u.

Also in an interview when u r conversing with the top officials and u r very confident on ur selection, ur thoughts emit positive feeling in the environment u r in which means that the person who is interviewing u is thinking positive of u.

Again when u r in a room of 2 persons, one is u and the other person may be ur friend or someone unknown. U 2 r having conversation and u feel happy and excited on the conversation means there is positive energy between u 2. If u feel uncomfortable and distracted it means there is negative energy surrounded and the person may be troublesome.

These are few ways u can figure out the usefulness of positive energy and try possible ways to bring the situation under control.

What is God?

Who is God?
Some supernatural power we all believe in! A belief that something is beyond us and controlling our actions.

Ennakum meeria oru anaamishya sakthi...

Can anyone predict His play?
His play is unpredictable. If u predict His play he will change the future. The phenomenon of concentric circles.

Nee ariyum vattathukku mael oru vattam varaivaan...

Can u become powerful than God?
No one can reach his powers but u can reach him.

Unn aasaigalai kattuppaduthu avannai ellithil adaiyalaam...

Can u feel God?
Everybody can feel His presence unless u believe in Him.

Nambikai vaithal manithanae kadavul...

Can we attain peace?
Peace is all we searching for! There is no limit for man's satisfaction leave all ur desires.

Manathai orunillaippaduthu nimathy unnai vanthu adaiyyum...

These answers are the only difference between a scientist and a priest. Scientists explore God's creations but priests accept what He has offered. That's were peace lives.

Kadavullai velliyae thedupavarkal vinnyanikal; kadavul thannul irrukkirrar enrru nambubavarkal nyanikal...